Hope. Wait. What is that?
Narration: When I travel to India, I frequently see many homeless
children attempting to earn a living. Sad, right? Well, my grandmother used to
be one of those children. At a young age, about five or six, my grandmother’s
family faced a terrible financial situation. Her family was unable to provide
for a house, her education, and new clothes. Thus, she was forced to make
flower garlands and sell them to pedestrians on the sidewalk. Through her hard work
and the gifts of many strangers, her family earned enough money to move into a
house. She then had the hope to continue with her life.
Description: A warm
feeling arose in the center of her body. The feeling created the slight lifting
of her cheekbones and required the tightening of her cheek muscles. Her breathing slowed down as this new relaxed
sensation took over her body. The smell of relief was omnipresent. As she
gingerly closed her eyes and imagined the next day to be filled with success,
her shoulders lowered and her muscles became limp, as if she were a marshmallow.
She tasted the salty lines which streamed down her face. These used to be streams
of pain and unhappiness. Now, the circumstances had changed with a glimmer of
brightness.
Example: The Dalai Lama once stated, “I find hope in
the darkest of days, and focus in the brightest”. His statement epitomizes the
minds of the current Hurricane Sandy victims. These victims have faced the
darkest times in this natural disaster, as it has ripped away their daily
lives. But with the strength they find amongst their friends, family, and
community, they are able to see the greater possibilities in the future. The
victims focus on the bright side and the changes in their future. And with this
hope, they will be able to achieve great feats.
Comparison/Contrast: There is no fine line between day and
night, light and dark, and white and black. They are stark opposites. Similarly
there is no fine line between hope and hopelessness. Hope represents the
presence of shimmer of optimism, which has the potential to motivate one to
continue with life. On the other hand, hopelessness portrays the pit of
despair, in which one’s world is dim with pessimism, making it difficult to
proceed with life. Therefore, it is impossible to draw any similarities as
these two concepts are mutually exclusive.
Process Analysis: Instilling hope in oneself is a long and
enduring process. It does not have distinct steps. Rather, it occurs in continuous
stages. In the first stage one must experience an unhappy situation. Whether
the circumstance is a daily stressor or life-changing event, one needs to
experience an event that could potentially be catastrophic (this is very easy
if one is a drama king or queen). This phase will eventually (at least we hope)
lead into a phase of euphoria. One will be more optimistic in their future. And
when a person reaches that brighter outlook, they have attained hope.
Division of analysis: Hope is a complex emotion. It has the
potential to lift you towards to sky, as if you are an angel floating in the
sky. But if the hope does not come in time, you can be sent into a pit of
misery and despair. In order to attain the angel floating in the
puffy-clouded-sky sensation, one must have a somewhat optimistic attitude
immediately after suffering from a disappointing event. When the optimism is
realized, the person will be able to face anything.
Classification: Instilling hope in oneself is a long and
enduring process. It does not have distinct steps. Rather, it occurs in continuous
stages. In the first stage one must experience an unhappy situation. Whether
the circumstance is a daily stressor or life-changing event, one needs to
experience an event that could potentially be catastrophic (this condition is very
easy to fulfill if one is a drama king or queen). This phase will eventually
(at least we hope) lead into a phase of euphoria. One will be more optimistic
in their future. And when a person reaches that brighter outlook, they have
attained hope.
Cause and Effect: Hope is caused by the optimistic attitudes
of those who have faced the terrible circumstances. Their experiences instill greater expectations
for the future. The future, they believe, can only get better. Whether they
believe that poverty will change to riches or sickness will change to good
health, victims will always foresee a brighter future. This brighter and
optimistic side ensures the numerous possibilities for a happier existence. Thus,
victims are given the ability to assimilate into their current conditions
because they can only improve. Or at least, they think that.
Definition: Hope is not an overly optimistic attitude, which
is irrational and unnecessary. Hope is also not the panacea for all pain and
should not blind persons of their problems. Instead, hope provides an optimistic yet,
rational view of the future. It enables the person to maintain a positive
outlook and take the required steps towards a more happy state, while
remembering that the world is not a blissful universe. It requires a balanced
state of mind and emotions. And once that balance has been achieved, the idea
of hope has the potential to change lives.
Argumentative/Persuasive: Keep an optimistic outlook at all
times. Sure, it is common sense. It may even sound banal. But, we often forget
to follow this advice. Despite being taught to value an optimistic attitude
from age 5, society has now become filled with pessimism as we face the daily
toil of life. We even view being rational as the equivalent to optimism. Pessimistic
attitudes are even becoming popular through social media and literature,
including Barbara Ehrenriech’s novel, “Bright-sided”. It is now up to us to
change this pessimistic trend and display that hope and optimism are not
outdated. They have just been forgotten.
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